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Guest Blogger: A Soldier’s Thanksgiving

Bouhammer’s Note- The following blog post is an entry written by my good friend, LTC Paul Fanning who is currently deployed in Kabul, Afghanistan.

It’s been weeks since I have submitted an entry. I have been very busy, and the end of our mission here in Afghanistan is in sight.

Our successors from the Illinois Army National Guard’s 33rd Brigade Combat Team are beginning to arrive here at Camp Phoenix and we are conducting the hand off of responsibilities known as Relief in Place – or RIP.

With Thanksgiving arriving tomorrow I have given thought to the many things that I am grateful for, not the least of which is the prospect of coming home in the not too distant future.

I am extremely grateful that I have had the honor and the privilege to serve in the New York Army National Guard for 31 years and was deployed to Afghanistan with friends and comrades, some of whom I have known for many years.

Our mission in Combined Joint Task Force Phoenix VII has been a tremendous personal opportunity and both a life and a learning revelation at many levels. I have only a few years left in the Guard before retirement, and I look at this mission and the total experience as a professional “capstone” for my service. I have seen, felt and lived a lot over the last year, not including all the training and preparation that I underwent in 2007 before I was deployed.

I am very thankful for my wife – the one person who was always meant for me and who has stood by me and “us” through this period. Though separated by a tremendous distance – half a globe apart – we have approached this deployment and withstood it as a partnership. She has truly supported my service and me. I couldn’t have done what I have been doing over here without her backing and personal support.

I am grateful to family members, friends and neighbors who have helped my wife at home in my absence and sent messages of support my way. Their efforts are deeply appreciated and have made a big difference to me.

I am grateful for the team I served with here each day and the new friends and comrades I have made as we worked together. They are my “battle buddies,” and this relationship will last long after we are home.

I am grateful to have been able to witness the courage, determination and dedication of so many soldiers and have been able to write about them in some of my previous submissions.

I am grateful to have been given the honor to speak through the written word, by voice, by photos and by video to Americans back home about the dedicated service of men and women, doing the nation’s business and trying to help the oppressed and impoverished people of Afghanistan.

America’s future certainly depends on the development and education of more civilian professionals in the many technical and service fields. I pray our nation never stops also producing dedicated men and women with the “Warrior Spirit” who will secure and protect our democracy from the enemies of freedom, justice and peace. They are not costumed superheroes; they are common people with great hearts and a willingness to take personal responsibility for the nation’s defense.

I am grateful to have known great and good men who have given their lives for our nation over here and to have been able to stand with other comrades to commemorate their lives and service from the combat zone.

I am grateful to the many people back home who send greetings, messages of support and donations to help us in our humanitarian support operations over here (A reporter was among many who sent a box of school supplies and personal hygiene items that we can give to Afghan children).

I am grateful to know and to have worked with some truly outstanding journalists who have come to Afghanistan to cover our mission and inform the American and other publics though accurate, skillful and objective reports. I am also grateful to many news organizations in New York, including the Daily Gazette, which have sought and conducted interviews by phone and e-mail, published photos and blog submissions and helped remind the public that we are here serving the nation.

I am grateful that I have been given the chance to serve in a combat zone with an historic New York command and now wear the Orion patch on my right shoulder as my “combat patch.”

I am grateful that upon my return I will be considered a “veteran,” as was my late father, who served in Europe in World War II.

I am grateful to the American people for the incredible display of patriotism through the conduct of the democratic process during the recently completed election. It was a tremendous example and signal sent to the world and to America’s servicemen and women abroad, who are pledged to serve and protect the Constitution. As a serviceman, I walked a little taller the morning after the election. Despite our many challenges at home, its also reassuring to hear about the transition process under way before the inauguration of the next Commander in Chief.

And, I am grateful to have been born an American, a New Yorker and have been raised in the Capital Region. I am extremely fortunate. Coming here to Afghanistan has been a humbling and yet fulfilling experience. I hope that someday the people here will be able to live in peace, with security and prosperity – knowing that it will take a long time to achieve.

My experience here and my personal knowledge of America’s own history helps me appreciate how far we as a nation have come thanks to the service and contributions of military, government and private persons who have devoted their lives to defending, growing, educating and developing the America we know today.

Oh so thankful today

I am oh so thankful for all that I have today. I am thankful for my wonderful wife who has stood by me for the last 17 years, running the house while I have usually been gone; either deployed, in the field or in my civilian role traveling as a consultant. I am thankful for my youngest son, Hunter who keeps us laughing so much and just lights up my day with his insightful comments and observations. I am also thankful for my son Jordan who is so smart and so good in school that I am just spoiled with him. Not only is he a great student, but an accomplished thespian and musician too. Of course I am extremely thankful for my oldest son, Jon. He is not able to spend Thanksgiving with our family this year as he is forward on the front lines in the Global War on Terror. I am proud of him and thankful that he has turned into such an outstanding young man, a terrific medic and soldier, and a great American.

In addition to my family, I am thankful for my country. I am thankful for all the freedoms and liberties we have as a people and culture. We are the greatest country in the world and this is evident by people in countries all over this rock that want to come to our country and enjoy the freedoms and liberties that we have available to us every day. I am so thankful that my spirit was brought to the earth in this country and not in a place like Afghanistan, or Haiti or any other poor third-world country.

In my opinion, one cannot be proud of their country and not be proud of our military as a whole. We have such highly-trained, self-disciplined and outstanding soldiers, airmen, sailors, marines and coast guard troops not only protecting out own country’s borders but also going after the enemy in other countries in order to prevent them from coming here.

I am also thankful for the guaranteed rights that we have in this country that allow us to practice whatever faith we have, allow us a freedom of speech, allow us to own and posses guns for protection (even though that is tough in places like NY), allow us the ability to vote for our leadership, and all of the other rights we have which are guaranteed the citizens of this great country and even non-citizens.

Last but not least I am thankful for all of my other family and friends. Many of which read this blog and know that I am talking about them. Several friends I now have are as a result of this blog and me blogging in general. I am glad this simple “deployment diary” has generated so many positive things in my life, to include a lot of new found friendships.

I love my family, I love my country, and I love our military. For all of that and more, I am oh so thankful.

A very good question worth answering

I love comments on my blogs and wish I got many more than I do. Every once in a while I get a really nice or well-thought out comment. Last night I received one from a fellow soldier who is studying at one of the premier military higher-education institutions. He flattered me by asking little ole’ me for my opinion on issues in Afghanistan. I started replying to him in the comments section, but then realized while writing my answer that this may be something everyone else who reads this blog, but doesn’t necessarily read the comments, may want to see. So I am re-posting his comment here with my answer below.

Thanks for your service to our great country, in addition to taking the time to keep up on Afghanistan and blogging about it.

I am Texas National Guardsman currently enrolled in Command and General Staff College. I will get to spend a couple of weeks at home during the Christmas Holidays, then will jump the pond and head to the “Rock Pile”.

The Washington Post had an article in yesterday’s paper, U.S. to Boost Presence Near Kabul. In summary, MG Schloesser is going to put one of the new brigades in the Wardak and Logar provinces. We lost three there in June by ambush and it was also the sight where the UH60 was shot down last month.

What piqued my interest in this article, was MG Schloesser’s quote in regard’s to Operation Lionheart, which is a synchronization effort with the Pakistan, Afghanistan, and U.S. military conducting border operations.

“None of these things are the thing that’s going to be the tipping point. But each and every one of them, as you add them, they are important in terms of adding to overall security. Just the ability to work on both sides of this very tough border, to talk to each other, to have complementary operations – it’s encouraging.”

My question to you, a question that is on the mind of a lot of people in this country and others that are prosecuting the war in Afghanistan, what is the “tipping point”? You been there and I value your opinion. Can you give me an assessment on how long you think we will still be engaged and what needs to be done to ensure success?

Thanks again for your efforts in your blogging. Have a Happy Thanksgiving!

MAJ Pollock
Staff Group 29A

Maj Pollack,

First let me thank you for reading and then for commenting. You pose a very good question for my opinion, so let me do my best to answer here.
Let me start with the fact that I think we will see US forces in Afghanistan for upwards of 20-25 years. I see our forces at that time to be in the same posture as our forces in Germany or Korea. More of a deterrent and a QRF type of force.
The “tipping point” in my opinion will be a generation change. As long as the US forces there continue to act with professionalism and treat the people humanely, then the younger generation growing up (whom hasn’t had their heads filled full of lies from the madrassas and mosques) will see that the principles we stand for and are trying to share with them are the right ones. The people there are uneducated and literally just a week and a half out of the stone-age. For us to be successful and hit that “tipping point”, we need to bring them a little closer to modern times. I don’t mean to be westernized, but to be educated. They need to have access to information, multiple viewpoints, etc so they can shape their own opinion. When you are uneducated, illiterate, and ignorant to the world, all you have to hang on are the words of the “smart and holy one” in your village. For most Afghans this is the Mullah who is supposed to know the Koran, know how to read, and be educated. They believe whatever that guy says. So as long as the bad guys control the mullah, they control the village.
This younger generation needs to grow up with more influence besides a crooked mullah and they need to develop the fire in their belly for their country. This is a major issue with the ANA and ANP, they are not in it for the greater good of Afghanistan, they are only in it for the paycheck. The younger generation that will eventually fill the ranks of government and the country’s security forces need to care about their country and their culture, not just their village. They need to feel like they are part of a bigger thing, and not just what is around them. By being uneducated and kept in the dark, they have no idea what is happening anywhere else, nor do they care. How can they care about something they have no knowledge about? Karzai and his government rule in Kabul only, and have really nil to no influence outside of Kabul, this includes places as close as Wardak province which borders Kabul to the southwest.
In order to start the education process, in order for the infrastructure to be built up, in order for this whole process to begin which will demonstrate the values and benefits we are trying to emplace, in order for all of that…..we need security. The little girls can’t go to school without being mutilated unless there is security. The schools can even stay operational unless there is security. The cell phone towers that provide a weak link to the outside world can’t even stay up at night without security. We, as the main effort in the coalition there, along with our coalition partners cannot even begin to shift our work effort to true mass rebuilding without security.
I hope I answered your question to your satisfaction. If I went off on a tangent and missed something, please feel free to comment again or email me by clicking on the link in the upper left.

Troy “Bouhammer” Steward

Another Nick Meo update and tonight’s show

I have talked about this piece of crap several times, Nick Meo that is. I have covered his actions here, here, here and here. Well he is up to it again or at least he and his employer have been. When the Army Public affairs officer from Afghanistan first told me and other milbloggers about how Meo acted completely unprofessional and unethical while embedded with US forces from Task Force Phoenix, I along with many others in the milblog community jumped on this.

We all blogged about it and then you, YES YOU, the milblog reader acted and sent emails to Meo and the Sunday Telegraph, forwarded the blog links to your friends, etc. I don’t think we ever know or appreciate how much power the blogosphere has, and more specifically the milblog world has.

The feedback to Meo and the Telegraph was so great that they went crying to the NATO run International Security and Assistance Force (ISAF). You may remember the acronym ISAF, as I have blogged about it several times, to include what US soldiers downrange through it stood for. I blogged about that here. Anyway, I digress…so they complained to ISAF which really means nothing. Task Force Phoenix does not fall within the chain of command of that NATO force, nor do they care what ISAF cares about or not. The sad part is that the overly pompous ISAF leadership thought they could say something and tried to get involved, but CSTC-A was cordial enough to essentially hold their hand up and say “talk to the hand, becuase they ears aren’t listening”. TF Phoenix works for CSTC-A and not ISAF, so ISAF had to essentially go back to the Telegraph and Nick Meo and tell them “sorry there is nothing we can do”.

The bigger story here is, what if they could do something? What the F@#$ were they going to do? I don’t work for TF Phoenix anymore, as I am back to being a civilian. None of the other bloggers that wrote about this work for TF Pheonix either. We are independent civilians that are expressing our freedom of speech to say whatever we want. I am not sure what the Telegraph or ISAF was thinking. Do they not understand what blogging is or who bloggers are?

Ironic that we found out about these late breaking events this week, because tonight is a big show on The You Served Blog Talk Radio Show. We have a special roundtable panel that will talk about the topic of “The power of the milblogs”. Sitting on this panel will be Susan Keating who blogs at susankatzkeating.blogspot.com/, Old Blue who blogs at billandbobsadventure.blogspot.com/ and special guest, Task Force Phoenix Afghan Regional Security Integration Command-South Public Affairs Officer, LT Amy Bonnano who writes the Command’s official blog at arsicsouth7.wordpress.com/ and will be joining us from Afghanistan. There are some other special guests on tonight’s show also, so please join us on this Thanksgiving week special night show at 7:00 PM EST over on www.blogtalkradio.com/youserved

Want another take on this story that is humorous and is written with creativity, check out my good friend, LL’s blog over at www.chromedcurses.com/2008/11/25/cry-baby-cry-baby-suck-your-thumb/. Just a heads up, she does not hold back and this blog is not for those that are easily offended.

Attackers arrested, victim wants revenge

According to www.star-telegram.com/279/story/1059777.html, it appears that the Afghan security forces have arrested the people who threw the acid on the Afghan school girls, which I had written about before right here, bouhammer.com/wordpress/?p=2048.

It appears that one of the teachers that was wounded along with the girls wants to follow the passages of the Koran which say “and eye for an eye”. After her herself being burned with acid and of course being there with her students as they were burned and blinded with acid, I can’t say I blame her at all. I hope the legal system there satisfies her wishes.

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